You had your 1st date or already a few more and now you want to know whether this really has potential between you? You can easily answer yourself how much you like him and whether you should meet him again on another date.

By simply asking yourself the following questions. Your answers tell you whether you want to see him again or whether you are secretly not in the mood.

Or were you totally into it?

Or did you completely ignore it and completely forget the time?

Do you just notice that you haven't really asked him any questions and accordingly don't know that much more about him or have you literally pestered him with questions?

Maybe you've already told your friends about him, if not, imagine: How do you talk about him? Are you very enthusiastic or rather reserved?

Yes, that sounds superficial, but of course you should also be attracted to him externally. Do you have that?

Did he make you feel good, even when there was a break in silence or was the whole thing rather uncomfortable?

How did he treat the waiter or bartender? Was he nice to other guests if, for example, you had to push past? Or was he condescending?

Do you not share certain views with him and maybe even have been horrified that he thinks that way? Or do you agree on important matters?

Sure, if you had to answer all (or most of the) questions negatively, then it is clear what you should do: decline a second date. Because then your first meeting just doesn't seem to have convinced you enough and you shouldn't go on a second date out of politeness.

However, if you are now convinced that you absolutely want to see him again, then grab your cell phone and text him! If he's as excited as you are, then your initiative will surely flatter him. Unless:

Then you can at least do everything right again and pull off that perfect first date (according to a love expert). Who knows, maybe then your great love will be waiting for you. Just don't let it get you down!