The presence of a loved one in your husband's life is not a joyful event. The first wish that arises when hearing such news is that these intrigues end as quickly as possible. It is possible to return the man in the family, he quarreled with the passion.

Before thinking about how you will bring your spouse back into the family, try to understand why he chose you for a mistress. Many women blame you in all family problems. If your husband didn't have this affair on the side, everything would be perfect. That's not true. Loved ones are not the cause of a bad relationship with you, but rather its consequence. If you and your husband were happy, he wouldn't look for other women.
The easiest way to make your spouse quarrel with his passion is to restore warm and friendly relations with him. Stop blaming him for all your sins and try to understand why he did that. Maybe you pointed out his bankruptcy too often or argued without a good reason?

Try to spend as much time with your spouse. First, it will upset a mistress who, deep in her heart, is jealous of you, a legitimate woman. Secondly, you can build a relationship with your spouse. Try to make sure he sees you as a friend again. Support it, pay more attention, find common interests again. Soon he will understand that the time spent with you brings him joy. Which means that a mistress will turn into a "grumpy wife" who is not ready to share with you your spouse's free time.

Think about whether you care less about yourself, whether you care about being attractive in your husband's eyes as before. Update your wardrobe, do a new hairstyle, do sports. When you see how beautiful you are, you will regain self-confidence. Men will pay attention to you. The spouse, who has already begun to regret the offense, will certainly notice all this and will not miss the opportunity to return to the woman who once married.

The more comfortable your husband will be at home in your company, the less often he will visit his beloved. Once you know he's interested in you again, give him a choice: either you or you. Student conflicts on the side will only push him to make the right decision.