What do the men want? A question that almost every woman will ask herself at some point in her life. Whether in a relationship or looking for her. Sometimes men are a real secret. But what do they actually find attractive and what do they want in a relationship? The answers to these questions are now available.

That's what men want in a relationship!

An online survey on behalf of the dating agency LemonSwan has now found out what single men REALLY want. The male sex just looking for someone for fun in bed? Not even close! Of course there are such and such, but we now know that men usually want things that are very similar to women.

#1 longevity

39 percent of single men long for a partner for the rest of their lives. When you get involved with someone, you want it to be forever. Just a one-night stand or a casual affair is nothing for most.

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#2 partners with a will of their own

33 percent of single men want a partnership on an equal footing. Therefore, the chosen one should know what to look for. Many men cannot do anything with insecurities. For many, an equal partnership is important. Differences in the other should be accepted.

#3 freedom

Taking and giving yourself space is important in a relationship. At least 26 percent of the men surveyed see it that way. Trusting each other and still being independent and letting everyone do their own thing is for many a basic requirement for an intact relationship.

#4 Sexual attraction

For more than every second single man (55 percent), sexual attraction and mutual lust for one another is an important factor in a happy and, above all, functioning relationship. Many want to feel physically connected to their partner and want and be desired.

#5 similarities

Similarities are essential in a relationship. 66 percent of single men believe it is important that they share the same values ​​and views with their partner. This is the only way a relationship can last. And that is exactly what men want, as we have already learned under point 2. For 59 percent, the similarities also include a similar sense of humor. But how many similarities are actually good for a relationship?