You usually feel safe and comfortable around the opposite sex. But as soon as it comes down to dating someone you're interested in, you become a nervous wreck. You imagine the worst things that could go wrong and then you can't really enjoy your date. You would prefer to take it easy on the date and flirt carefree.

The following advice will help you get a positive attitude towards flirting and take the edge off you. So that your next date will no longer scare you.

Don't expect too much: Even if you're hoping to finally find your perfect counterpart, you shouldn't set your expectations too high. This thought makes you even more nervous and you run the risk of being bitterly disappointed if the date doesn't go as hoped.
It's not just YOU who are nervous: You may find comfort in the fact that your crush is just as nervous as you are. Going on a first date is exciting for everyone! You can casually mention when you meet them that you're a little nervous. This not only takes some of the pressure off, it also has a sympathetic effect.
Keep your thoughts in the present: Try to just enjoy your date and don't worry about what will become of you. Just see it as a nice opportunity to get to know someone better. You have nothing to lose and maybe there will actually be sparks between you.
Pay attention to your outfit: Wear something nice that you feel comfortable in. Avoid overly chic clothing that may not only be inappropriate for the situation, but also pinch and pinch.
Be yourself: Don't try to be someone you're not. It's not about putting on a mask to desperately impress your date. You should give your counterpart an honest picture of how you really are.
Don't overdo it with self-praise: In order to make an impression, many people fall into veritable self-praise orgies. The good qualities are listed there, as if it weren't a date but a sales pitch. This comes across as arrogant and is generally not well received by others.
Don't interrogate: Just bombarding your date with questions can feel like an interrogation or a job interview. Of course you should ask questions and show your interest. But please, carefully dosed.
Restrain yourself with alcohol: Fight the urge to use alcohol to relieve your nervousness. This can only go wrong! If you already show up to the date with an alcohol flag, you've already lost. During your date, you should only consume alcohol moderately, if at all.
Don't be afraid of awkward silences: Awkward silences on a date can be an awkward situation. You can find out how best to deal with this in the article "Awkward Silence on a First Date"
Distract yourself with other activities before the date: If you just sit at home and wait until the date, your nervousness will increase by the minute. On the other hand, if you spend the time before the date doing other activities, you will be well distracted and ultimately the date will only be one of many other activities of the day.

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