No question - sex is really the most beautiful thing in the world. But what if you don't have a partner to roll over the pillows with you? In addition to non-binding one-night stands and masturbation, you can also venture into the vastness of the Internet and get your money's worth via cybersex. But what should you consider when having sex online? Which texts are suitable and what are hot examples for CS?
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Almost since the invention of the Internet, a sexual component has simply been part of the World Wide Web. In addition to an almost endless supply of pornography, which awaits curious viewers in the form of images and videos, the exchange of suggestive descriptions in chat rooms, so-called cybersex, has developed from a marginal phenomenon of anonymous communication to an integral part of our sexual practices - or do you have yours Loved ones have never written hot WhatsApp messages, sent sexy photos or been a little heated up via Skype or FaceTime? We tell you how you can have hot cyber sex anytime and what you should consider when you get your kick from strangers on the net.
Safer sex – even with cybersex!
As with "normal" sexual intercourse, you also have to protect yourself during cybersex. Of course, that doesn't mean you have to put a rubber over your mouse or smartphone, but whenever personal information or photos of you are involved, a healthy dose of caution is part of enjoying online fun. After all, it has not only been known since the nude photo scandal surrounding Jennifer Lawrence, Kirsten Dunst and Co. that hackers can use simple tricks to access the most private – and hottest – photos. If you don't want to be blackmailed with salacious pictures of yourself at some point, you should also play it safe when it comes to cybersex.
How to protect yourself from cybersex:
Never give out private information like your name, phone number or address if you don't trust your cybersex partner. Do not send photos of yourself that show your face or any other easily identifiable feature of yourself. Do not use a nickname that reveals your true identity. With a so-called VPN, a virtual private network, you can even protect your computer's IP address in order to be even more anonymous on the internet. If you also want to meet up with your cybersex partners in real life, choose a busy place for the first meeting.
Cybersex Examples - This is how it gets really hot in the chat
You've already gained some experience flirting online, but your online conversations haven't really gotten that hot so far? Actually, cybersex isn't all that different from sex in real life – there are two involved. When a chat with a stranger is getting hotter and hotter, making you curious and making your legs tingle, you can approach it with "innocent" questions. Ask your chat partner what he would like to do if you were lying next to him and tell him how you would spoil him. Tell him what you're wearing and how you undress bit by bit. Describe where you are touching your hand and where it should be touching you. You can let your imagination run wild and don't have to fear any taboos - after all, your counterpart doesn't know who you are. So cybersex is the right framework not to make your sexual dreams come true, but at least to share them with another person. You can find even more hot sexting examples here.
Cybersex: The savior of every long-distance relationship
But cybersex is not only suitable for mind games – if you wish, of course, with simultaneous masturbation. You can also get your steady partner really hot over the internet. If you can't be together because one of you is abroad or you are in a long-distance relationship for other reasons, the verbal exchange of affection can provide a lot of pleasure and at least make up for the lack of closeness to a certain extent. Do you both have a webcam? Then a hot striptease followed by self-exploration in front of your partner's eyes is absolutely the order of the day!
Virtual Reality: Cybersex of the new generation
Does that sound pretty hot? The latest developments in virtual sex go one step further. What started as just an exchange of sexual emails or messages and then at some point took shape with online role-playing games like “Second Life” at least with the help of avatars could soon find its way into the actual bedroom. Cybersex is no longer just an erotic chat, but any sexual physical interaction using a computer or computer-like device. Virtual reality helmets and glasses are no longer just part of SciFi future scenarios, but with Metaverse and Co. are already a reality. It goes without saying that they can also be used for erotic adventures. In addition, there are – or will be in the not too distant future – connectable vibrators or full body suits that can turn the virtual experience into a haptic one. So in a few years we might understand cybersex as something completely different!
It's not quite that far yet and cybersex usually takes two more! With every contact on the Internet - regardless of whether it is erotic or not - be aware that the data you provide can be hacked faster than you would like. But with a little caution, a lot of hot encounters are waiting for you on the net!